Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Another Birthday for my Libra Family!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, PHIL!!

Isn’t it crazy how age sneaks up? I’m not that much younger than you, you know! But age is only a number and doesn’t define who we are or how we act. Keep it real, yo. I love you, brother, and wish you to have a happy and celebratory day from South America!

-T

Still have no idea what you're doing, Phil, but it looks hard. Happy Birthday!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Rasta Kitty has Kittens!




Rasta, our adorable stray Guyanese kitten that we adopted about 4 months ago when we found her on the side of the road, got pregnant! We had plans to get her fixed as soon as she was big enough but the little hussy ran off and got herself preggo before we could get her to the vet! So, for 9 weeks we had a lazy, pregnant kitten lounging around our apartment. Well, last Thursday (on our 8 month anniversary of being in Guyana) Rasta delivered her kittens!

Tim says the represents the end of Rasta's innocence. She is no longer playing with her blue ball because she is too pregnant, instead she sprawls by her birthing box and awaits her fate....
    
Tim and I were just about to make dinner when we noticed Rasta pacing back and forth and going in and out of her litter box. We noticed a white, gooey glob in the box and immediately got online to figure out what it was. After browsing the amazing annals of the internet we learned that it was her mucus plug and Rasta was about to give birth. Now, in anticipation of this event, I had placed “nests”, specifically cardboard boxes filled with newspaper, all around the house so Rasta could choose where she wanted to birth her babies. Instead we saw her meander over to the bottom shelf of our homemade bookcase where we keep our clothes. As we hustled to remove our clothes and put down material that we wouldn’t mind messing up Sara noticed that there was something strange about Rasta, she was meowing and panting and purring all at the same time.

“Is she having her babies?” I asked. “Um, yeah…” Sara replied. And as I turned around I saw a black, sticky mass hanging half way out of Rasta. The kitten was breached and Rasta couldn’t get her baby out. She was freaking out, clawing at me, meowing, turning in circles and dragging her baby, still halfway inside her, around the room. At this point, I started to freak out too. “Should I pull it out?!?” I squeaked, panicked. Tim flew to the computer to see if it was okay for a human to assist a car in labor, after all cats have been doing this forever without us, right? Well, I didn’t want to wait for him to find the answer so I gently eased the kitten the rest of the way into this world. As I laid it on the floor, Sara and I were pretty sure it was dead. Tim ran back into our room, “Is it dead?” he asked. But Rasta knew what to do. She licked the baby clean of the sticky mucus and it began to squeak and twitch. She then quickly gnawed off the umbilical cord with her teeth and delivered the placenta and ate it. She picked up kitten Numero Uno by the scruff of its neck, carried it into the birthing nest in our bookshelf and proceeded to have two more babies over the span of the next two hours. The next two kittens, Numero Dos and Runt (the smallest little dude ever) came out easily and quickly.

It was amazing to watch! All three of us (Tony was in G/Town writing the Peace Corps Guyana newspaper, the Gaff) had lost track of time, forgotten to eat dinner, and were amazed that three and a half hours had passed with us sitting on the floor enraptured by the miracle of birth taking place.

Now the babies are four days old and all are healthy little squeakers. They are blind and deaf and completely rely on Rasta for everything. Now that she has gotten the hang of it, she is a great mom. She decided to move her babies from where she gave birth (to throw predators off her trail, I guess) to a little cubby under the counters in our kitchen. One by one she gently bit them on their scruffs and toted them to the cubby where they are presently sleeping. Rasta nurses them, licks them clean and snuggles them. In between all those tasks, she leaves the nest and takes naps on her own. All new moms need breaks from babies, don’t they?

Since cats can get pregnant almost immediately after they give birth, we are keeping Rasta inside so she can’t get herself into trouble with the tom cats in the neighborhood. She is not happy about her house arrest but oh well, it is for her own good. She will be nursing the kittens for the next 4-6 weeks and then we will help wean them, get them eating kitten food. Then we are going to get the whole family spayed/neutered! It costs about $40 US per cat but we are trying to be responsible here and don’t want to contribute to the already sadly un-spayed/neutered population of household pets in Guyana. Ideally, we are going to adopt the kittens off to other Peace Corps Volunteers. We will keep you posted on the status of these little guys along the way.

Overall, it was a crazy experience and I am stoked to have more little bundles of love around the house to snuggle and play with. Enjoy the pictures! 


A blurry picture of me, sitting by our bookshelf. Rasta is behind the pink bandanna, giving birth to Numero Dos. I just pulled a kitten out of Rasta so I am a little freaked out...






Runt being born. Numero Dos is off to the side, Numero Uno is nursing and Rasta is SO over having babies!
Cutting the cord with her teeth
Rasta moved her litter to the cubby in the kitchen. Numero Dos fell out. LOL!
The whole kitty family
Numero Dos
Runt
Numero Uno

Yep, we do actually ‘work’ in Peace Corps


In Peace Corps there is a very loose definition of ‘work’. We Volunteers are responsible for ‘building capacity’. Ahh, capacity building, that well loved, and well hated term used amongst development workers around the world…Basically, it means teaching people anything that will help them tackle their own social problems and address their own needs. As PCVs, in order to do capacity building, we first have to integrate into our communities. I mean, would you listen to a stranger coming into your home bossing you around? Probably not. But you might listen to advice a neighbor has to give you, especially if you have seen that neighbor volunteering at a local school, or helping whitewash a fence or something like that. We have spent the last 6 months in our community getting to know people, asking questions, developing a rapport and gaining the trust and respect of our colleagues and friends. Integrating is an ongoing project, of course, and is one huge part of our Peace Corps service. This being true, it does make hard at times to define ‘work’ because ‘work’ can be sitting and talking to the shop owner about his kids, being seen strolling through the market or at a cricket game, visiting friends at home or in their churches or even working in our garden. These things say to our community, “Hi I am here to stay for a while, I am one of you (even though I may not look like it) and I care about you, want to get to know you and work with you.”
Any PCV can tell you that during their service they sometimes felt like they were not “doing” anything, because this ‘integration’ part of capacity building often doesn’t feel like work. Tim and I constantly have to remind our selves that it is indeed a crucial part of our job. However, at the end of last month, Peace Corps Guyana HQ held a conference for all of Guy 22 to discuss the details of the work that actually feels like work, the nitty-gritty Project Design and Management (hence the name of the workshop: PDM).
We attended PDM, held at a swanky hotel for Guyana standards (hot running water, air conditioning and cable TV which we appreciated very, very much!), with our Guyanese counterparts. We each got to select a person with whom we work who will help us champion our projects and causes. I went with the Medex of my health centre and Tim took the Literacy Advisor from the department of Education in Region 10. Both these ladies have been essential in welcoming us into our workplaces and working with us to determine what sort of projects we should be working on. We all went into PDM with some ideas of where to take the next 18 months of our Peace Corps service and came out of PDM with some concrete plans of action. So, without further ado, I present to you my project plans:

  1. Start a Health Club at the secondary school down the road from my health centre. Work with the teacher in charge who ran the club last year, to educate youth on many health aspects; sex education (I say Self education here in Guyana so I don’t turn people off), diet and nutrition, self esteem, decision making and more. I am excited to kick this off this week and get back in the classroom working with young people!
  2. Work with the many already existing youth groups in the area to improve collaboration and coordination of services so that we can ultimately increase the number of youth who are accessing the health services that are available. There is an awesome NGO and also a group funded by the UNFPA and the Guyana Ministry of Health Youth Friendly Clinics (that I have been working with for a while now) all sort of doing their own things. My goal is to be a bridge between then groups so we can work together towards our shared goal. We held a meeting last week and already made good progress. The groups worked together to start planning an outreach booth at the upcoming Fair and a youth forum funded and organized by all three organizations.
  3. Promote Youth Friendly Services by way of mass media. There is a television program funded by the regional government that is not being used to reach out to a large portion of the community so Sara and I, on request of the Regional Health Officer, have written some episodes to promote health among the youth and also that are accessible to the general populace. We are aiming to air our first episode in November.
  4. Bring the Guyana Red Cross “Be Safe” Program into Region 10. This is an awesome program that teaches young children (under 9 years of age) about how to protect and respect their bodies and prevent domestic violence and sexual abuse in their lives. I have been working with the coordinator of the Guyana Red Cross and she and I hope to train 22 teachers and nurses to go into the schools in my community and carry out this program. We are planning to host the training in early December.
  5. Continue promoting relevant health issues to the patients of the health centre. I am planning to continue giving health talks to the Elderly Club that meets at the clinic monthly and work with them to build their knowledge about chronic disease prevention and care. I also plan on bringing some of the information on healthy dietary practices that I have organized into a Guyanese context, to the mothers who come in to the Infant/Child clinic.

By doing all five of these things, I will be building capacity at all levels of the community; among the youth, adults and elderly both in and out of the clinic. I know I have a lot on my plate. It is actually a little scary just thinking about all I want to do and how little time I have to not only implement these projects but also find a way to make them sustainable before my service is over. Yeesh…

I think I will let Tim post his own blog about the projects he has in the works. Stay tuned! 


"WORK" that feels like work:
Discussing project plans and offering to assist in schools at a region-wide Head Teacher's Meeting


Me, giving a talk on balanced diets for children to a PTA meeting with astounding attendance
Working with students at the Youth Friendly Health Centre to design a poster on contraceptives



Teaching drama to students at the UNFPA funded youth group. Go collaboration!


 Also "WORK" although it doesn't always feel like it:
Drinking Sunny-D (no joke) with a fancy dinner at an awards ceremony for high achieving students
Mr. Barrow (Tim's self-proclaimed Guyanese godfather) invited us to the award ceremony he sponsors for stellar students


Watching the World Cup at a restaurant/bar = integration

Playing with a coworkers son at a water park/picnic

Doing laundry (this feels like work, but just housework) doubles as community integration too

Sunday, October 10, 2010

HAPPY 10-10-10 @ 10 am!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOM!!

Hello all, happy 10-10-10! We’re still working on our progress and kitten post ☺ but I wanted to take the time to not only post on this awesome date, but also wish mi madre a happy 25th birthday…I didn’t do so well in math; I will let her tell you her age if she wants to share it. Anyway, hope all is well and make this day a special one.



 That's Phil. His birthday is coming up a few days too. I am sure mom loves this pic :)

Friday, October 1, 2010

Barbershop White Gurl


Tony getting a cut at the "Barbershop"
One of the best investments we made coming out here was a set of hair clippers. Since I’ve been in Guyana I’ve paid for only one hair cut and this was done only during training when the clippers almost caught fire. Since then, though, I’ve been going to “Barber Shop White Gurl” aka Chelsea.

During training

Every couple weeks or so I sit on our porch overlooking the front of our house, while Chelsea clips away my hair with a #4 (Don’t act like you don’t remember the numbers, guys!) Every so often people, primarily men, stop and stare from the shop across the way. They shout things like, “Hey barbershop white gurl, can you cut mine next?” or they grab their dreadlocks and say “When’s my turn, babes?” We ignore it for the most part and eventually they move on and she finishes the trim.

Sitting in the chair, I think about why it’s such a big deal to sit on my porch and get my hair cut. I mean, why don’t more people do it? It saves money, right? However, walking around town and thinking about my barbershop experience on the Essequibo Coast, I realize that it’s part of the culture. Men go to the shop to have a gaff or 4, thus it’s a social exercise and activity. They talk as men talk  (for it is well known that men, in general, gossip more than women) and get their hair cut. So, of course, we’re a spectacle; not only am I a blinding white slab of skin (for I don’t usually wear a shirt), but I’m also not doing justice to the man’s barbershop code.

Granted I could way off, but it’s fun to think about.

Much love,
T & C

Before the first Barbershop Experience. CRAZY HAIR!

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Barbados and Some Congratulations!

First off I’d like to give a shout to Ms. Katie Smith and the HSHMC Drama crew. We received a package the other day and it was full of HSHMC goodness. Thank you so much for bringing a bit of San Diego to our lives. Anyway, Chels and I were finally able to watch Twelfth Night from all the way back in April. I am glad we did. It was amazing. We’re so proud of you kiddos! And you all should be proud of yourselves for putting on a most excellent production.

I know in the last posting Chelsea posted a quick blurb on our vacation, but I think it deserves a way more picturesque and detailed version; it was that great. I ask for your forgiveness beforehand if it starts sounding like a travel ad. It was that great.

A few days before we departed the mentality set in. For me work was distant, I’d sit at my desk thinking of all the possible things I could be doing besides work and Chelsea was sick, but we both were optimistic and looked forward to our mini trip.

The day dawned we awoke early and prepped for our adventure to the airport. This was the first time we’d had to go there and we decided to use public transportation rather than a taxi, which would have been way more expensive. We left in plenty of time and made it the first leg without a problem.

Nothing exciting happened at the airport (except Chai tea, Lattes, and bagels with cream cheese, which, of course, are always causes for excitement), but when we boarded our hearts were filled with possibility and joy. Chels and I were the last ones to board and we had two seats in the front that faced the rest of the plane rather than the cockpit. It was also an emergency exit so we had plenty of legroom. (Cultural Note: It seemed that the Guyanese did not appreciate the greatness of the emergency exit seats…or they just didn’t want the responsibility…) Quite comfortable.















The plane took off and we flew across the Atlantic, getting a few treats like coffee and crackers, until we approached the island. The first view was stunning. The multi-hued, aquamarine water surrounded the little island, shouting a blue-green coloured welcome. We’ve arrived.




The Barbados airport looked so modern compared to the Guyana international terminal. I suppose that when an island thrives on tourism it has to make a striking first impression. And it did. The climate as we stepped from the plane reminded us of Guyana, but with a hint of moisture in the air. It was a bit hot and humid, but there was a breeze blowing from the nearby ocean. We entered the baggage claim and were consumed by air conditioning.

Barbados is a 14 by 21 mile island nestled between the Atlantic Ocean and the Caribbean Sea. We stayed on the west side of the island southeast of Bridgetown in a place called St. Lawrence Gap on the Caribbean side. It’s not too big, but it has plenty to offer. The currency is the Barbados Dollar which is locked to the value of the US Dollar, however, it’s 2 Barbados to one US—thus it was easy to exchange the prices when we arrived (we stayed away from the Guyanese rate…they don’t even accept Guyanese currency on the island, and, plus, we were on vacation!)

We got to our condo without a problem and with another member of our band. We left with 2 other Peace Corps Volunteers, Princess and Sara, and picked up my cousin’s buddy, who is our friend now, Scott, since he arrived way earlier than Joey and Diaz. The first thing that struck us about the condo was the view. We were on the third story in a unit called the “Jr. Penthouse.” The view overlooked our own personal pier and a large pool. The ocean in with its triple-hue of light green, darker green, to a deep blue winked at us, beckoning for a dip. The second thing was the air conditioning. Within the condo were three bedrooms, a master overlooking the ocean and pool, a second bedroom with the same view, and a smaller room set at the end of the hallway. We also rented a smaller room at the poolside so everyone would have a place to crash (we thought there would be 8 not 7, but it worked out.) The kitchen was gorgeous with a microwave, an oven, a 4-burner stovetop and a large fridge and freezer combo. It was also well stocked with utensils and cooking gear. There was a spa on our balcony that wrapped around the unit. It rested under some shade to keep the blistering sun from burning its occupants and it was hot. Real, real nice. We could have spent the whole time just in the condo, but the island called.



That's our building behind us. 


As the afternoon burned on we wandered the Gap, checking out the numerous bars and shopping centers. We even wound our way to a super market to stock up the condo so we wouldn’t have to eat out every night. Then, as evening quickly fell, as is wont to do near the equator, we found ourselves at Café Sol a Mexican cantina and restaurant across from our condo.


The food was divine: nachos, burritos, chili-fries, 2 for 1 margaritas and sheer amazingness. My stomach growls in recollection; it was one of the finest meals we had had in 7-months. The utter joy must have shown on our faces because Scott said he felt like he was on “Survivor” and we all just won a reward challenge. Maybe we did. It sure felt like it.












Joey and Diaz arrived around 11:30 pm, prior to that and after dinner the five of us relaxed in the hot tub and watched the flat screen TV with satellite cable. I was enraptured by the TV, I hadn’t really watched it in months, and despite the fact that some of the commercials were in Spanish, I couldn’t look away. One thing we did realize throughout this trip was how much we had taken for granted before. And at the same time it struck us that we really don’t need all of the necessities to be happy. We can be happy living simply.











As the remaining stragglers came in we explored the Gap at night, which apparently is the nightspot for the whole of the island. We had some real good street chicken burgers and visited a few of the establishments. It was pretty fun. We turned in.

The next day we decided to do the cultural/touristy stuff, plus it was Joey’s B-day so he called the shots for a bit and we went on some real memorable adventures. The first was a snorkeling trip to explore sunken ships and swim with Sea Turtles. Our stars were surely aligned that day Chelsea went for a morning walk and ran into a shark and fisherman. They got to talking and she inquired about snorkeling. Well, he and his partner owned a boat and have a small tourist service. We asked about how much it would cost and it was doable, cheaper than we expected to pay. The guides name was M.C. Turtleman. He was awesome. We planned to go snorkeling about 12, but weather was against us.












A rainstorm came and riddled our condo with a tattoo of water. We inquired to MC if we’d still be going out. He was totally against it. He said that if it cleared by 1:30 pm we’d go, if not our trip would be postponed until Sunday. The rain cleared around 2 and we were on our way to his boat. He even grabbed some beers and Rum Punch for us to enjoy as we rode out.


His boat is the white one back there.



We came upon the first site, the sunken ships. We leapt into the aquamarine water and began to explore. The ships were covered in coral and fish swam this way and that, weaving through long-rusted portholes and hatches. The ships were of all shapes, sizes, and colours. Tony lent us his underwater camera so we were able to get some photos of the wreckage and of each other as we attempted to ANTM pose in the raging sea. Chelsea was by far the most successful. I had few hiccups since my hydrophobia decided to rear its ugly head when the water kept getting into my snorkel, but despite this it was one of the most incredible experiences I’ve had in my life to date.


































After seeing the ships, we tossed a few cold ones back and cruised to the south point of the island to swim with some turtles. At first, the setting was not the picture perfect scene. It was a passenger loading dock, surrounded by concrete dikes, buildings, and a slight wooden pier. But once the turtles showed up everything shifted. We leapt into the water and swam with these wondrous creatures. I will let the pictures speak for themselves. They were bumping into us, coming in close, and eating with such odd ease. It was magnificent.




























As darkness came, we headed back to our beach to have a birthday celebration for Joey. We went to a Brazilian restaurant nearby had some pretty good food, and then went to a bar across from our condo called “Reggae Lounge” which had a pretty nice dance floor, a pretty good bar, and some great music. The midnight oil burned on and Joey’s birthday we scratched up as a success. Check.


Sunday was a mellow day. We sat around the condo relaxing in the calm sea, the hot tub, the pool, the balcony. We read, relaxed and took a much needed rest. We cooked that night. We made spaghetti with actual sauce! Not the tomato paste, and tomato concoction we make in Guyana. It was good and simple. Most of us went to bed early. But of course the Chicken Burgers were eaten as they had happened the night before and the night before that and would happen the night after.




















Monday dawned we were energized again we had a nice morning with lots of coffee, some poolside action and some ocean swimming. We decided to head to the capital city of Bridgetown so the girls could go shopping and us boys could go Rum sampling at the Mount Gay Distillery.

We took public transportation and were stunned by the cleanliness and awesomeness of Bridgetown. There were old granite British buildings, the parliament and the arch of triumph, some cool stores and beautiful park and it had working sewers (shocking!). I am sure there were more things to do, but time was limited and each sex went on our respective ways.






The Rum Factory was pretty neat. We got a tour, learned the history, and sampled their different rums and Joey bought us some shots of the real expensive stuff. It was good and silky tasting, but it lacked the spice and originality of Guyanese rum (Don’t tell them that, though.) We ended our time there sitting on the deck overlooking the colorful Caribbean sipping on some rum drinks then headed back to Bridgetown to rendezvous with the ladies.















 We then chartered a taxi to take us the northernmost point of the island called, with such originality, North point. We journeyed to some sea caves called the Animal Flower Caves. Needless to say, there were neither animals nor flowers there (I call false advertising, Sir!), but it was beautiful nonetheless. We walked down these steep steps holding to the sides, and then found ourselves surrounded by sharp outcroppings and small pools of seawater. The view took our breath away. If we were pirates we would definitely hide our treasure there. Staring through the cave openings, the Ocean spread out before us, in all it’s blue grandeur, crashing against the resilient rock, bits of white and spray cresting the cave lips. We walked for a bit, a slack-jawed expression permanently placed upon our pretty pusses. Chelsea, Sara, and Princess even had the foresight to wear a bathing suit under their clothes and were able to take a dip in one of the larger sea-pools residing within the caves. We stayed for a little more, and then made our way to surface for a few more photo ops. Check. Success.



















We returned to our home territory and watched the sunset from Accra Beach, a wonderful, good-sized beach northwest of the Gap. We then consumed Greek food at a eatery called “OPA!” and then ate Coldstone-like ice cream at a place called “Chilly-Moos”. We had some ice cream the night before and it melted our face off with flavor. Sure, if we lived in the States it may not have been anything special, but it was another “Survivor Moment” where the minutest things are a novelty. It’s the little things.





This was our final night on the Island in the Sun and Joey, Scott, and Diaz had to leave at 4:45 am to get to the airport on time. So they stayed up all night. I tried for sake of brotherhood, but I crashed about 1:30 and woke up to see them off.

Our time had come to an end. But it was worth every minute. We arrived in Guyana and figured out how to take public transportation back home and our lives continue.

It was a great experience and it’s been said over and over again that this was one of the best vacations we’ve been on. But it wasn’t the culture or the relaxation, or even the people, it was simply that we’ve been away from such material things, such luxuries, for so long; that those things we’d taken for granted throughout our lives have become a rarity. Perhaps it’s a sign of growth, of maturation and wisdom, of a simpler life and things to come; regardless, it’s a reflective point to meditate on.

Much Love,
T & C