Two weeks ago an
unexpected knock on the door brought a new friend into our lives. Meet Toast,
the surprise puppy!
We weren’t
planning to adopt a dog but when my friend showed up at our door to say we had
first dibs on this little pup who needed a home, we couldn’t resist her cute
face. We told my friend that we would take her in for a week to interview the
dog and see if we could handle the responsibilities of having a puppy.
Within the first
few days Toast nuzzled her way into our hearts. She is a two month-old boxer,
beagle, pit bull mix and already such a good dog! She is mostly house broken.
She has occasional accidents when we leave her in the kitchen/laundry room
while we are at work/school (but always on puppy training pads! What great
inventions!). She already knows how to sit and waits patiently, sitting still,
staring up at us with her adorable scrunchy face when we are about to feed her.
Yes, a pet is an
added responsibility and an added expense in our lives right now but adopting
Toast is such a great thing. She brings so much joy and laughter into my daily
life. I stay more focused while I am at school (less dawdling on facebook at
the library) because I know I need to come home and take the dog out. Then when
I do come home, it is to ebullient puppy energy, playfulness and snuggles.
Right now Toast
hasn’t had all her vaccines, and she is too small, but someday soon we will be
able to go for long walks and runs and I know that will be good for me. I have
been much less disciplined about exercising since I’ve been in law school.
Hopefully Toast will help get me in shape.
Tim and I are
also realizing that taking care of a puppy is good practice, at least in some
small way, for the type of coordination and balance needed for parenting. We
see ourselves having to transition away from thinking only about ourselves on a
daily basis since we have to plan our days, holidays and futures taking into
account another being (albeit a canine one). I know we won’t be able to leave
our future babies in the kitchen with a bowl of food or just put them in the
backyard when the are being bad (or can we…..?) but at least we are realizing
that, as with most everything else we have done so far, with flexibility,
patience and teamwork we can make anything work.
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Toast is so little right now, but I imagine she won't be a lap dog forever! |
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Toast came to the polling place and voted with us on election day |
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A great companion for studying on cold nights. |
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Everyone who came to our house said we have the perfect backyard for a dog. Toast thinks so too. |
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Scrunchy face! |
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So cute. |
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We love her little pout face. |